
Why I Wrote This Book
Chasing Perfection isn’t just a title—it was my life.
I spent years performing, proving, and pushing myself to be who I thought the world wanted. I wore the smile. I chased success. I built the image.
But behind it all…
I was burned out.
I was soul-weary.
And I was completely disconnected from who I truly was.
This book is my story—but it’s also yours.
It’s the hand I wish I had to hold during the moments I felt most lost.
The moments I questioned my worth.
The moments I forgot who I was… and whose I was.
This is for the woman who is:
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Struggling to find herself beneath the roles she plays
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Burned out from doing all the “right” things and still feeling empty
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Desperate for peace, presence, and purpose
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Ready to begin again—with God, with herself, and with her story
Chasing Perfection is a journey home.
Home to your identity.
Home to your truth.
Home to the woman you were always meant to be.
This is the beginning of healing, self-discovery, and freedom.
And you don’t have to walk it alone anymore.
I've got you!
"I wasn’t sure what I’d learn from this book… but I was blown away.”
Chasing Perfection goes deep into the mind games we play on ourselves—the way we exaggerate the bad and downplay the good. Rachel’s raw honesty and the reflection questions at the end of each chapter were exactly what I needed. This book held up a mirror in the most empowering way. If you’re a woman who wants to understand herself better, read this. — Cheryl R.
“Deeply personal, incredibly empowering, and refreshingly real.”
Rachel puts it all out there with vulnerability and strength. Her story walks you through mindset, body image, and self-worth—and doesn’t just inspire, but teaches. I especially loved her approach to fitness and her ability to receive feedback (even disappointment) with grace. This wasn’t the book I expected… it was better. — E.Sander
“One of the most honest books I’ve ever read.”
Rachel’s story made me feel seen. She talks about insecurities and limiting beliefs in a way that felt like my own thoughts on the page. Chasing Perfection showed me I’m not alone in struggling with negative self-talk. It gave me tools—and hope—to get out of that spiral. I recommend this book to anyone trying to reclaim their confidence. — Jordan Alexo

About the Book
Chasing Perfection isn’t just another self-help book—it’s a raw, real, and faith-fueled invitation to unbecome everything you were never meant to be, so you can finally become who God created you to be.
This is a journey through burnout, body shame, people-pleasing, perfectionism, and performance… and what happens when you finally say, “enough.”
You’ll walk with me through:
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The identity crisis that began with a single question: “Who are you?”
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The healing power of movement and fitness—not as punishment, but as worship
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The unraveling of shame, masks, and striving
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The courageous choice to stop proving your worth and start living in it
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The messy, beautiful middle—where God met me, not after I had it all together, but right in the thick of my healing
This isn’t a book about perfection. It’s about presence. It’s about choosing truth over trends, soul over striving, and love over lack.
If you’ve ever felt like you lost yourself in the chase to be “enough,” this is for you.
What You’ll Gain From This Book
Chasing Perfection: A Journey to Healing, Fitness, and Self-Love by Rachel Brooks, isn’t just a story—it’s an invitation. A mirror. A guide.
Inside these pages, you’ll find:
- Permission to pause—and stop proving your worth through doing
- Clarity about who you are beneath the roles, titles, and expectations
- Honest reflection that helps you finally feel seen, safe, and not alone
- Tools to reframe your inner critic and break free from perfectionism
- A deeper connection with God and the truth of who He created you to be
- Real stories and raw lessons that give you hope for your own healing
- A companion journal (Points to Ponder) to help you process and grow as you read
You won’t just read about someone else’s transformation—you’ll start to experience your own.


Order Now to Unlock Exclusive Bonuses
Order the book and register your purchase below to gain access to exclusive bonus content.
1. Points to Ponder Journal
Your guided companion to reflect, process, and grow alongside each chapter. Originally created for Chasing Perfection, this exclusive workbook gives you space to pause, heal, and begin rewriting your story.
2. Fit From Within: 7-Day Reset
A simple, soulful challenge to reconnect with your body, mind, and spirit. This mini experience blends movement with mindset and spiritual renewal. No pressure—just presence.
3. Self-Love Guide for The Confident Woman
A soulful workbook to reconnect with your worth and build confidence from within. Includes prompts, affirmations, and mindset tools to help you release old patterns and show up fully as the woman you are becoming.

Step 3: Spread the Word
This journey wasn’t meant to be walked alone.
If Chasing Perfection spoke to your soul, share it with a friend, sister, or someone who needs this too.
Let’s walk each other home—together.
This story (and your's) might be the reason someone else finally starts theirs.
Awards + Media Mentions
→ Silver Medal Winner — Women’s Non-Fiction (Reader’s Favorite)
→ Silver Medal Winner — Health & Fitness (Reader’s Favorite)
→ Top 10 Finalist — Best Self-Help Book 2020
→ #1 Amazon Bestseller — Self-Help, Women’s Health


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About the Author
Rachel Brooks is the award-winning author of Chasing Perfection, founder of The Confident Woman, and host of The Confident Woman Podcast. Her story is your permission slip to rise.
After decades of chasing worth through perfection, performance, and people-pleasing, Rachel found healing through faith, identity, and self-love. She wrote this book to walk with you through that same transformation.
Today, she empowers faith-fueled women to rewrite their stories, reclaim their power, and live with confidence from the inside out.
Interested in having Rachel speak to your team, community, or appear on your podcast?


What Happens Next
Once you begin you're own journey to Becoming, I encourage and invite you to:
- Listen to The Confident Woman Podcast
- Join the I Am... Becoming a 6-week soul journey
- Reflect with your Points to Ponder Journal
- Read on Audible or Kindle
- Connect with Rachel on Substack, IG, Facebook
The key to finding freedom is found within—you have the power to create your own story. Let's go!

What people say about it
Uplifting and powerful. I’ve never felt more understood. I see myself differently now. This book helped me shift how I see myself and inspired me to live with more confidence and clarity.
— Kristi D., M.L.S
Rachel’s story is raw and real. She reminds us that we’re not alone in the struggle—and there is a way through. Beautifully written—the Points to Ponder make this book more than just a story—it’s a transformation.
— Ashley A.
Chasing Perfection is a journey to healing, fitness, and self-love. It reminded me to take my power back and inspire others to do the same.
—Gisel H.
An inspirational memoir with themes of hope, growth, and healing. A worthwhile read for anyone on a journey of self-love.
— William N
A life-changing book that holds up a mirror and gives you space to grow.
— Cheryl R.
This is a must-read for every woman chasing perfection and doubting her worth. Truly inspiring!
— M. H.